One of the goals of Family Money Values is to explore what it takes to build a longer term view of family – to build a legacy that lasts for several generations. In our article Build a Long Term Wealth Plan for Future Prosperitywe state that some of the outcomes a family might expect if they do build a long term wealth plan are that family members may:
- keep in touch more
- share more of the same ideas, concerns and values
- cherish and pass along the family history and legacy
- use each other as resources, drawing on one another’s strengths
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grow financial resources significantly over time
But, after you leave home, how do you keep and grow the relationship with your parents and grandparents? After the nest is empty, how do you develop that new adult-adult relationship with your child and bond with your grandchildren?
Sharing experiences is an excellent method of keeping in touch; sharing ideas; learning; creating; and passing family history and legacy; as well as using each other as resources.
Of course you will visit back and forth, call, email and share holidays, but these events and times are rife with parent/child history. Traveling together can create new opportunities to get to know one another in new ways and to create shared experiences, memories, values and history.
